
However, Facebook definitely does have its disadvantages. Some kids take Facebook to the extreme, spending up to nearly five hours on the computer chatting and looking at friend's profiles. While the chat feature is nice, I feel like it is starting to replace real-life, face-to-face relationships. Some people are dating people they only met online and have actually never done anything together in person. From personal experience, getting to know someone in a chat setting can be nice but it does not bring the same satisfaction as talking in person. That kids would rather sit on the computer and talk with friends instead of going for a walk with their friends or getting together to play is really sad.
And we're wondering why children these days seem to have insufficient communications and writing skills! First of all, Facebook definitely does not function with the Standard English forms you learn in school. The cyberspace world is filled with so many abbreviations that it is hard to keep up. This translates into student's daily lives. I have seen some papers or vocabulary tests where the slang used on places such as Facebook are used. Students have no understanding that to be taken seriously in the real world, they simply cannot use abbreviations such as "lol" and "brb." Also, many students lack interpersonal skills in school because many of their relationships are strictly online. This affects the way students develop. In fact, Erikson's stages of trust, intimacy, and even identity can be affected by students lack of face-to-face conversation. They simply do not learn how to read people as well or how to compromise and work in groups- everything online is typically one-on-one.
Do not get me wrong. Technology does have advantages in schools. Teachers just have to take care to monitor the amount it is used in schools. If we want to reverse this trend, we need to focus on personal communication by having group discussions and encouraging students to speak up in class.